I don’t know what your problem is, but I hope you can figure it out. Maybe you can sit down with a professional and talk about specific issues that seem to cause conflict. You may find similar patterns in your “trouble getting along with other women.” Some of it may have to do with you, some of it may not. You may find you are in a group of women who promote conflict. You may be with unhealthy women? I don’t know, but other women are important. When you have the opportunity to make “real” women friends, you will develop honest, loyal, pleasant, happy, and caring relationships. You will have fun too. (Who ever reads this, please don’t take this as male bashing at all). I am simply stating that women can have long-term honest relationships that last a lifetime. Good “girl friends” are important for all aspects of your life. I hope you develop these friendships.
Personally, I run. I listen to books on tape or music and get my mind off of what ever makes me mad and the feelings behind it. After my run I can think more clearly and decide what I am going to do and not do about it (the situation).
By definition, insane means: in a state of mind that prevents normal perception, behavior, or social interaction; seriously mentally ill. I don’t use the term, so I looked it up before answering. In my opinion, lets look at it as “Signs you are thrown off your center”. Signs could be such as memory problems, difficulty thinking in situations where it is usually not difficult, behaving with a short temper, feeling bored or unmotivated, unable to connect to others as usual, and on and on. Signs like this do not necessarily indicate that something is terrible. Sometimes it is a sign that you need to look more closely at a situation and make a change. This is sometimes a wonderful thing to happen in life so you “wake up” make a positive change or get out of a situation that is not in your best interest. So, if you find yourself feeling “off your center”, figure out what is throwing you off, then decide what to do.
If you control the amount that is placed into the account, you will control the amount your 14-year-old can take out. If your 14-year old has an unlimited amount to take out of the account, plan on losing it.
Don’t ask him to marry you.